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You Succeed We Succeed! |
| 1. Thou Shall Choose a Catchy User Name / Display Name |
Don't you click on a catchy news-line first while reading news online?. The fact
is we all face is "Information Overload" and we all run out of the most
precious unit of universe "Time". It is in your best interest to choose a catchy
or appealing userid / display-id. Please DO NOT choose a sexually appealing name as
its against this site/business propriety policy. Choose decent and catchy names, for
example: california_babe, hotdesi, your_dreamgirl, mr_india, bostonian, yourabcd,
single_ceo. |
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| 2. Thou Shall Login As Often As Possible! Why? |
When members search the system displays "MATCHING" users in a
chronological order of LOGIN DATETIME. If you do not login AT LEAST once a WEEK,
most users may not notice you. Why? Because your name will probably be not on
Page 1 !! It is in your best interest, if you are seriously committed to finding
someone is to login as often as you can. |
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| 3. Thou Shall Get The Recent Best Looking Photo's Possible! Why? |
You know something, if you had 10 profiles displayed on a page and 2 of them had
photos, which one's would you click first?
You want to see your dreamgirl or dreamboy photo as soon as possible! Yes, we
understand you are shy, you don't want anyone to know you are looking for a soul-mate and
you may appear desperate to others! |
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The point is attaching a photo d 4x more attention to you. We
provide password protection to view the photos so you could secure public view of
the photo. |
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Please do NOT attach or send an average looking photo - why?
It imparts the impression on others that
- you are not serious
- you don't care about your looks (jungle
hae!!!)
- you don't understand the meaning of first
impression!
- You are too lazy and ignorant
You must correct your mind
sooner than later on this important issue? Whether you choose to attach or not to attach
your photo, it is extremely important that you get professional photos taken and scanned,
remember it is year 2004 and you don't want to do things that happen in 1960's
Finally, you got to make a choice... would you rather age more and get really desperate or
attach a photo for some defined duration and have maximum chances to succeed.
SECURITY CAUTION
Please do not give out phone number's or contact information
other than external email-id unless you verify the other person via at least 4 pointers -
Email Id, Full Name, Work Phone and One Personal / Professional Reference. There is no
authenticity for online users specially the UNPAID members (Regular Members)! |
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| 4. Thou Shall Prepare An Attractive Profile & Essay |
The next thing that anyone's your attraction about a person is His/Her
Profile, isn't it?. Your Profile is what you are, it can either make it or turn the viewer
away.
You must write something catchy in your essay/comments. It will be useful
to write natural describing one's personality, hobbies, profession and basic requirements.
If you do this right, you would surely get a note from a reader.
Avoid negative tone or negative comments about anything, this is not a
sign of openness (Freedom of Speech!!!) but a cause of problem for you, as people have a
tendency of rejecting when something negative is written in the profile. Never write
negative, since negative statements sometimes do give a feeling that you don't care, are
not open-minded or that you are stubborn. |
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| 5 Thou Shall Not Ask Tough Requirements - This guy is too much! |
Do not make your requirements too narrow or too broad. Keep it balanced so
you have messages coming from people that view your profile / requirements. As it will
help you to search your mate effectively and also help us to search your soul-mate, in
case you are a member of our Suitable Manual
Match Service.
For example: At least 10 marriages or engagements that take place with help
of this service per month are because people liked each other from "first click".
This included profile "essay", professional photos and professional email and
phone manners. As it is ultimately you who will decide whether you like the profile or
not. So make profile keeping yourself in others place. Only then you will make the best
out of it. |
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We will be
delighted to help you and make your experience searching a life-partner as smooth as
possible. Your Success is Our Success!
Please feel free to write to me or any counselors here at
SuitableMatch.com with any feedback or help needed. I/we will personally make sure your
profile stands out the best and "you get what you pay for".
Hope this helps
Best of Luck
Regards,
SuitableMatch/Asianmatches Team |
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