Gone are the days when it was expected of woman to exclusively stay at home, nurse the children, look after the household work and are of the in-laws. Though the notion still exists but today's woman is also expected to help her husband to contribute towards the household expenses. Now a days women are more independent and do not like to be dependent on their husband. Thus both husband and wife have to consider that every relationship requires co-operation, trust, understanding and responsibilities without which the marriage will not survive.

A better life
That his wife is working so the family can live a better life and enjoy every facility available to them. Since both are working and the flow of money will be sufficient, so there are good chances of nice and tension free life.

Respect her feelings
To respect his wife's decision and feelings. Maintain the wife's individuality and don't expect to only be a housewife and sit at home when she is well educated and is fully capable of earning and supporting the family.

Help her in household
To help the wife in the household chores and share the kitchen work, cutting vegetables and help her with dishwashing in case the maid takes a holiday. Don't think that its a women job only, in a world of equality its no shame to work in your house and for your house, so help her.

No doubts
Not to doubt her character and should allow her to attend office parties and picnics without insisting on accompany her. Remember doubt can bring problems in your married life, so why doubt her when she is your other half.

Help Her
Help her with her work if she needs it. Anybody can need help, so don't hesitate to help her

Don't boost
Never boost about your individuality and independence. Boosting in public or parties can cause/develop tension in your life as no person would like to hear boosting unnecessary.

Respect your husband
Never give an impression that just because you are not dependent on your husband you can do anything and that your husband has no right to tell you anything. Don't fight over small matters and learn to avoid unnecessary tensions.

Don't bring office to home
Never mix up office tension with family. Once you are out of the office forget about it and concentrate on your family. Keep your office in office and home at home, as mixing them may disturb your happy married life, think if same is done by your husband. Never mention office gossip to your husband if he is not interested.

Don't over praise your colleague
Avoid praising your male colleagues too much on their looks or behavior. Even if your boss is nice to you, you don't have to boast the fact to your hubby who would feel jealous and sometimes even suspicious. Praising somebody is fine but over praising some one is alarming for him.

Don't pressurize him for family
Don't be in a hurry to raise a family, as it would affect your career growth. Decide in consultation with your husband, the right time to have the kid and whether you would like to continue working later on.

I hope this info will be more than enough for you people to run your working and married life happily. If you need any suggestions or help please feel free to write back at counselor@asianmatches.com Enjoy!!!